From 'Guys Girl' to Feminine AF
An unexpected turn in my journey towards sensual and sexual empowerment was the newfound pride I found in embracing all things feminine.
Being ‘girly’ used to be something I tried to distance myself from.
Growing up under the influence of two significantly older brothers, I was on a constant quest to prove myself next to them, in the hopes of winning Dad’s approval. Dad’s reminders of my gender only fuelled my competitiveness - hehe.
I morphed into the quintessential ‘guy’s girl’ - laid-back, understanding of the guys, fun-loving and undemanding, rejecting my own femininity under the misguided belief it would make me more endearing.
In secret, I loved parts of feminine culture - shout out to faves like ‘Bring it On’ and ‘The Princess Diaries’ - but would have confessed such guilty pleasures to fellow ‘guy’s girls’ only in moments of mutual vulnerability.
Ironically and unconsciously, my initial gravitation towards sexual empowerment and pole dancing was partly an effort to solidify my status as the ‘cool girl’. This persona, motivated by a desire to appeal to men, often entails suppressing one’s true self. It's a manifestation of internalised misogyny, stemming from a historical context where women's power often hinged on their sexuality, sometimes even for survival.
The notion that female sexuality exists solely for male consumption has long pervaded our society. Yet, exploring and celebrating my sexuality among other women and femmes has illuminated its intrinsic validity, beauty, and magic.
This journey has lessened the weight I place on male perceptions, paving the way for more genuine, loving, and fulfilling connections with men.
The discussion around gender norms is an important one, but I've come to wholly embrace my femininity without discarding my masculinity, finding a balance between the two that feels so dang good.
In less than two weeks, my sensual and sexual empowerment course begins.
Join me to:
Reclaim and celebrate your inherently gorgeous erotic self
Tap into the immense potential of your pleasure
Connect deeply with your body, stepping away from overthinking
Infuse your life with sensuality for better wellness
Foster a neutral or loving relationship with your body, boosting confidence
Have fulfilling and soulful orgasms
Identify your desires and needs in intimacy and life
Communicate effectively
Build authentic and rewarding connections
It all starts with your decision to say yes.
For those who might benefit from a 15-minute chat about your goals and how Unravel Me can support you, bookings are open here.
Lots of love,
Michelle x
PS: Not quite feeling Unravel Me but think one-on-one might be more your style? Flick me an email at hello@michellekasey.com, and we can chat about what you're after.