My cervical orgasm

A mere myth until my mid-20s.

Now, one of my favourite orgasmic experiences everrrrrrrr (first place would have to go to the life-altering full-body orgasm that can be facilitated without touch).

Before which I had NO IDEA the cervix was even capable of pleasure, let alone orgasm. Instead, associated with smear tests, IUDs & cancer…

I’d learnt to angle my hips in ways that prevented my cervix from being pounded during sex because all I’d ever found there was pain.

If you have a cervix, I want you to know that your cervix is orgasmically powerful!

If you had a cervix, but it’s been removed, the energy of your cervix is still orgasmically powerful! (wwhaaaaaattt, weird, I know, but true)

It’s extremely common to feel cervical pain during penetrative sex. This pain is experienced for two reasons:

There is long-held tension, stressors, or trauma held in the cervix, that needs to be released (a life-changing aspect of my work with my clients)
The cervix is not being stimulated correctly

As I describe above, a cervical orgasm commonly feels like an intense build-up of pressure & pleasure, a soul-shaking release, most often followed by a powerfully cathartic release of emotion.

Sometimes intense grief… sometimes primal animalistic wildness… sometimes uncontrollable laughter.

Here’s some guidance on how to stimulate the cervix (don’t stress, if your experience sits outside these guidelines, we’re all a little different):

It usually only becomes pleasurable, at a higher level of a turn-on.
Cervical orgasms are vulnerable & often emotional. They probably won’t show themselves, unless you feel safe (in your body, environment & with any applicable lover) to fully surrender to the experience & be seen in a vulnerable expression. Hold yourself, or your lover, with so much safety, love & permission. Be “too much”.
Your cervix doesn’t like to be rushed. Allow spaciousness, if you desire to connect with its pleasure.
It likes deep, slow thrusting. At least to begin with, then, a gradually increased pace can feel delicious! (Bunny rabbit fucking straight out the gate, will contract the body & freak the delicate cervix TF out).
The cervix wants help from the clitoris. I encourage you to try a technique I use with my clients, where you “blend pleasure”. Stimulating the clitoris simultaneously with the cervix, wires pleasure into your cervical neuronal pathways!

Helpful? Let me know in the comments below!

My consultation calls are currently open to folks of all genders who are interested in working together!

On this journey, I will compassionately guide you to totally re-experience yourself as an erotic being. Being the way we experience sex is a reflection of the way we relate to all aspects of life, you’ll soon notice how the power of this work melts it’s magic into your work, relationships, art & beyond.

Here are just a few of the things my clients have casually said to me in the last few days:

“I’ve done years & years of therapy & personal development work. That was the most powerful session of my life”.
“I had the biggest orgasm I’ve ever had”
“I told myself I was beautiful, powerful & strong, & for the first time I genuinely believed myself”
“Michelle, you make me feel so safe, held & accepted.”

You can read testimonials from some of my clients here.

Whether you would like to begin on this side of the holidays, or in January next year, I would be so honoured to speak with you more.

You can book a free 30-minute zoom consultation call with me here.

LOVE,

MK

The orgasmic power of the cervix

As I came, I felt a transcendent pressure rise & release as energy rolled through my body. Just as I came back down to earth level, I was rushed by another wave, intense grief.