Hey, over giver.
I get it.
You’ve become a master at offering your time, attention, affection & body to others.
You’ve been telling yourself you’re just an empathetic & generous person, who’s more capable of giving & doing than others.
This high ground offers you a sense of power sometimes.
Which hides some of the resentment you’re carrying.
You’re just a little bit pissed off all the time.
Which makes sense. Your battery is empty & you’re going unseen.
If you’re honest with yourself, you’re yearning to be loved for the parts of yourself that have absolutely nothing to do with what you give.
I know. It’s scary.
You’re not sure you know yourself (or your worth) without this.
Will your relationships function if you were to just… stop?
Will you be liked/loved if you were to just… stop?
Over-giver, here’s my desire for you…
stop waiting for the pay-off of your sacrifice.